
okay before you read this blog any further than this word , i would advice you to back off , if you love your dad so much , or like have nothing to complain about your father than please don’t read this , it does not apply to you .
So anyways , dad’s are very important to any child whom they belong too right , however when you do reach a certain age , and that age is close to 20 years old for that matter , your relations with your mom or dad , would be slightly distance and obscure .
But my tale is slightly different than yours maybe and i shall share with you a tale of my relation with my dad .
Well my dad and i was not too bad when i was younger , cause he worked more often and was not home more often , so we had a great relationship . however when i reach my teen years , we became very vigorous and unpleasant kind of ties . I mean he can be very annoying and very not understanding towards what you have to do or what you have to say .
He perpetually think that he is always right and we are always wrong . Nothing i do or have done
would be perfect for him , from cleaning to cooking to just fairly taking care of my siblings
or doing those chores which i don’t really like to do . Nothing is perfect anymore
nothing is appreciated , and yes i would say i would be hurt by that .
Although my heart is pure and very stiff , sometimes it does Hurt so bad .
but hey , i guess some of you have a more horrible dad than i do right ?
Mentally tired and drained , i am just hanging on
looking forward when he is going for work , since he won’t be home to bug me
i do not ask to be given more luxury than now , or given more freedom
just an acknowledge that he appreciates things that i have done
in response , he brags on things he has done , that has been nothing really
if compared to things that i have done , i mean i appreciate things that he has done ,
if i don’t i would have like spent all that credit card on useless stuff .
and i won’t even bother to use my talent in the furnishing and culinary arts at home to present to you
would i . so yeah that is my tale , and i am glad that i have told my memoir to some
if you do share the same kinda dad , than i just hope you stay strong and just stop trying
do what you do best , and get on with your life
and just try to avoid him more often
signing off
Perpettualy aka Umar